congratulations

 Congratulations 

You made it happen

We Passed 25,000 views this morning

Is it too ambitious to ask, how we make this blog go viral? 

Milestone

As the blog visits climb towards 25,000 I am reminded why I started it and while I do like to show off my beautiful wife, that was not the main reason.

It started when a friend of Maja's asked if I appreciated how beautiful she is. I replied that I was always telling her that, but she didn't believe me and thought I was biased.

So I challenged her, I suggested I would set up a blog with mostly her nude pictures and see how many visits it got.

It started slowly because I didn't advertise and instead relied on word of mouth and accidental discovery. The rate did increase when I mentioned it on a couple of naturist websites and since then it has grown steadily.

We can always do with more visitors and followers, so if you have any friends who might be interested please introduce them to the blog.

The variance in the quality of the pictures is because of the variety of cameras used.

Images

I wonder how many of you have copied and printed my pictures from this blog. It's alright if you have, if I worried about that I wouldn't have posted them in the first place. As long as you have not reposted them and claimed them as your own.

If you do have any of them on a site of your own and have given me or this blog credit, I would be pleased to see the site/blog. You could post the web address in the comments, it might get you a few more visitors, and don't worry I would take it as compliment to Maja (and maybe to my prose).

This leads on to another thought, there was much made of the airport security cameras seeing through clothes and exposing peoples bodies for the security staff to see. But this is nothing new, I remember over forty years ago a swimming baths with cameras in the changing rooms and since then more and more changing areas have been adorned with them, mostly well hidden miniature cameras.

Any time we have tried on a piece of clothing in a shop changing room, security personnel have been watching. Seeing your underwear is one thing but what about trying on a swimsuit or bikini or, as I am led to believe sometimes happens in changing rooms you got up to something intimate with a "friend" to spice up your relationship maybe.

The reason I've mentioned this is, for the people who say they could never let anyone see them naked. In all probability they already have been seen naked, it is all recorded and can be used as evidence if need be or copied for employees and their mates to watch on a night off, maybe watched on long boring night security watches.

The question that arises from this, has it harmed them being seen naked by someone who doesn't know them and who they don't know. On a naturist beach this happens all the time, the only difference is you can see them as well. So the problem seems to be in the knowing that someone has seen you rather than the being seen.

Given that most anyone could have been seen naked while buying clothes or in a swimming pool changing rooms, you could apply the saying, "Once it's out, it cant be put back" meaning once you have been seen you cannot be unseen and as I have always said what harm has been done. If you're accidentally seen and embarrassed by it, the gossips will love embarrassing you. If you don't care who sees you gossips wont have anything to talk about.

I hope this all makes some kind of sense to you and if you aren't already a naturist, you'll give it a try.

size?

Well I'm back, something had flipped a switch in Chrome and after much searching I eventually found it.

So onto size, I was watching something on TV the other night, where the main person had a real problem with the size of his penis. His girlfriend of several years was happy, but he had developed a real problem about how small he felt it was.

I know this isn't really about naturism, but I wonder how many people are put off going nude because of the size of their penis or in women the size of their breasts (or their partners penis).

Starting with the male organ and something they didn't say on the program, is Size is Important. Not wether it is large or small but wether it is compatible with your partner - it is no good trying to park a lorry in garage made for a Mini and equally a mini would be lost in a garage made for a lorry. There are as many women with small vaginas as there are men with small penis's. So finding the right size for you is important.

Some will claim that a vagina can stand a babies head passing through it, so it can stand any size of penis. But if you think about it the baby comes out from the inside, the penis is entering from the outside. Consider this, if you take a kitchen funnel and pour flour into it, the flour will all slide down through the narrow neck. Now gather the flour and try to pour it back in the opposite direction. You cant put the baby back in, similarly you cant put an enormous penis in a small vagina and have both of you enjoy it.

Also sex is supposed to be pleasurable, ask any mother if childbirth was pleasant.

Breast enhancement is almost common these days, but I have to say two bags of silicon will never excite me. That being said I would also say that big breasts have never been a favourite of mine, a woman doesn't need big breasts to be beautiful or sexy.

Under 30 a woman probable hasn't stopped growing them yet, I can hear the Boos and jeers from here, but here is proof. Pictures of Maja's breasts at various ages.

Maja at age 24

Maja age 29

Maja age 31

What made the difference?
In this case the attention of a loving partner massaging, kissing and caressing them at every opportunity. My attentions encouraged the blood flow and that helps to increase the size. We didn't deliberately try to make them bigger, it was a wonderful side effect of love and attention.

Below is a photoshopped picture of the earlier photo. By inverting the colours to negative it gave me this picture that resembles a planet. I added a few stars and used it as the cover for my Sci-Fi book "Rubilacxe"

I could write all night on this subject, but to return to naturism.

If you are concerned that other naturists will point and laugh, I can tell you the majority will not. Naturism is about being naked together and naturists see each other much the same as textiles see each other. Believe me when I say that if you stand and stare at some else's genitals you will soon get the sharp edge of their tongue. Naturists do not like people who stare. 

If you are not convinced, try going to a clothes optional beach, then you don't have to remove all your clothes until you feel ready and if you don't feel ready then don't remove them. You will soon see that no-one pays attention to you, in fact being clothed on a naturist beach will attract more attention than being nude.

Why not Naked

Why is it, that people are afraid to let someone else see them naked?

What is it about seeing human skin that frightens people?

With the advent of Selfies, there are more nudes appearing on the net, not necessarily naturists but nude non the less. The media in their usual over sensationalist way, blow things up out of all proportion. But have you noticed there is no calamity awaiting those who do it. The papers shout about the Selfies but dont get to the point and tell us what is wrong with selfies. Admittedly, unexpected genitalia suddenly appearing on someones phone might be shocking to some people, and the papers make great play about men sending pictures to young women. They dont make such an outcry about similar numbers of women who do the same thing to men. Of course naturists would send the whole picture to people they know and not just the one area to strangers.

Of course this being said, naked genitalia should not be sent unsolicited to some one who might not want to see such things, that is rather like aggressive flashing and could cause trauma among the more sensitive. Mind you if we were all naturists all the time it would kill such approaches outright - what is the point of a flasher when everyone is already naked.

In the recent heatwave the papers reported a woman walking through parts of London completely naked. There were no complaints and the media had a job making a story about it.

No one could be surprised at what is on this blog, I think the title gives it away. People who only know us casually and dont know we are naturist, might stumble across the blog accidentally and might even be startled by it, but again there is sufficient warning in the title so they dont have to open it if they are sensitive about such things.

I know with the spiders-web of links on the internet, it is possible for someone to find one or more of the photos accidentally, but I dont see that as a problem.

I knew a girl once, who was a GO-GO dancer at strip night at a local dance hall. She was a lovely girl, very popular and we became friends (just friends, nothing else) for a while, if she hadn't been married already .......

We lost touch for sometime then I found she was topless GO-GO dancing. Later she became a stripper and in much demand. During this time (before Calendar Girls) she was a member of the W.I. They knew about her work and even featured it in their magazine. I think I remember right it got into the local paper as well. So the Jam and Jerusalem fraternity didn't object to her nudity. So who does object to nudity??


If anyone knows the stripper and/or her husband, ask them to get in touch through this site. It'd be nice to catch up again. Her husband was a keen cyclist and ran a cycle shop in Leicestershire for a while.

Photos and their place

Some time ago, I wrote about how photos of a beautiful wife naked and in the full bloom of womanhood had a drawback. That is, as you get older and watch your loved one grow older, the image of her as she was is still there and it is depressing to realise how old we are getting.

On reflection that was wrong, as I find myself less and less mobile, it is good to be able to look at the pictures, both on the wall and in the computer and remember what life was like.

So I look at the living room wall, above the TV and think happy thoughts about the past.

If anyone else has pictures they want to post, contact me through comments and I'll send my email address.

how to start showing others

 Below are two pictures  of not too good quality. I took them with a specific reason in mind. This was at a time when we hadn't really come out as naturists, I'd mentioned it to a couple of workmates. They had met Maja (clothed) and didn't believe she would let me take nudes of her outdoors.

It did occur to me that it might be a wind up so I would show the the pictures, so we played their game, but not in the way they expected.

As you can see Maja is obviously Nude on a beach but nothing is visible. Despite that they were well received and one of my workmates admitted in private that he had a nude painting of his wife, done by a local art class.

What is Social Nudity

We reached one of my targets recently 20,000 visits to the blog. It started because Maja didn't believe how attractive she could look to others. A girl friend of hers tried to tell her and even tried to tell me, until she found she was preaching to the converted. I had always known how good she looks, particularly nude.

I know that is not a naturist priority, but that's why I called the blog Naturist and Nude it allows me to stray from the pure naturist, as you will have seen in earlier posts.

I'm sometimes asked how I deal with lots of people seeing her naked. It is a question I have difficulty answering, because I don't see the problem. Nudity is natural for me, I don't have any problems with anyone seeing or being seen nude.

We were in a jacuzzi at a naturist club a few years ago and Maja was the only woman in there at that time. She got out to go for a swim and I noticed three men sitting opposite the steps tilting their heads to get a better view between her legs. She has a very pretty vagina that is worth seeing. A lot of husbands might have been angry at their reaction, but I felt proud that they couldn't resist looking.

I think that reflects my whole attitude to people seeing my wife naked. I love her and I'm proud of her. It makes me happy that others share my thoughts when they see her body.

For those that think I'm exhibiting my wife or am not keen on myself being seen naked, I would say look back through this blog all the pictures there are of me, are there. Being the photographer I don't often get in front of the camera and I'm sure that anyone, male or female would sooner see Maja than me naked.

If it were allowed, I would love to be naked with my wife all the time when we are out in public. I see nothing wrong with shopping in the nude, just like at Agde.

The question is can anyone explain why social nudity is wrong?

We all have the same things on our bodies, so we have seen it before. The often heard argument against toplessness is "I don't want my children seeing that" but that is what a woman's breasts are there for, they are for feeding children. Total nudity is not traumatic for children and if you have ever been to a naturist club you will have seen that amply demonstrated.

Is it about sex?
No, it can be sensual but it is not sexual. Although there do appear to be some nude sex beaches cropping up. From what I have read some beaches are like the dogging in car parks where anyone goes with who they please, you will never find us anywhere near them. I like people to look at Maja but I wouldn't share her (her choice as much as mine).

We went to a country car park in Leicestershire once to watch a meteor shower. When cars began to pull in and park at the far end, I thought the meteor shower was popular. Then it dawned on me what they were there for and we drove away quickly.

This evening was the first episode of "Naked Beach" on channel 4. It wasn't badly handled, with painted bodies and nudity and all before the watershed at 9pm. Whatever you may think about it, it does bring nudity forward into the public eye and portrays it in a positive light. It was interesting to see nudes and topless mixing with the general public in the street and on the beach.

Boudoir pictures

What has become known as Boudoir pictures, began life as sexy pictures that wives had taken as a present for their partners. They were usually clothed in sexy nighties, bra and pants or lying on a bed naked with a single thin sheet picking out their figures. Sometimes they were naked and wrapped in a shower curtain, allowing fuzzy glimpses through. 

They were often taken by professional photographers and set into books. When taking your own it is easy to concentrate on your model and not enough on the surroundings and the focus etc. try and keep her beauty out of you mind until after the photos are taken.

Of course there is always the risk of the partner being jealous of another man being in their bedroom with a naked or near naked wife, but they have survived for many years and taken things further. Many are now naked, closer to what might be termed "early glamour" with no attempt to cover up, I love both ideas and wish I'd taken more in the bedroom, bathroom and lounge.

This is one of my early photos of Maja and I didn't see the chair or radiator, I didn't see anything past her naked form. If it wasn't for the softness of the models expression and the lack of thrusting thighs. it could fall into the glamour category, except for the background. I could photoshop it out, but don't like to.

      

My earliest pictures of Maja are boudoir pictures and I think they are very sexy, but not necessarily in keeping with naturism.

Sometimes pictures present themselves, like this one. I was walking by with my camera in hand when I saw this.