What we see on the Internet

Have you noticed that there are more  nudes on mainstream media, not only that but things that would have been blocked as porn just a few months ago. Male erections, female genitalia close ups, masturbation both male and female and the s-x act. All under the guise of medical or health cures.

The thing is they often look like ordinary couples. Are couples becoming more open about s-x.

It's interesting when you think, s-x talk used to be taboo in mixed company. At weddings you all knew what the happy couple would be doing that night, but nobody mentioned it and no-one was embarrassed by it. Now some wedding dresses leave little to the imagination. How long before the ceremony includes the consummation.

I'm ambivalent about the pictures and videos now being allowed, they aren't so obviously false with the bad acting that identifies porn.  perhaps that's because they don't have to stick to a naff script. is love making such a private thing that it has to be hidden away or should it be open and honest. I'm not talking about swapping or dogging, but honest love making.

We've never made love in public, although we did have our neighbour Linda burst in unannounced whilst in mid session. We were both naked and performing Cow-girl style in front of the fire, when she burst into the room saw us screamed sorry and rushed out again. Maja and I both laughed and heard their bed springs in the flat above us, squeaking urgently later. 

What difference did it make, well rather like going nude in public for the first time - none whatsoever. Linda had seen us doing what married couples do, it shouldn't have been a surprise that we do it, only that she had seen us. it didn't change our attitudes to each other or to Linda and her partner. 

So is there a logical reason why a couple cant make love in a room full of friends?   I dont know, I only know that being seen didn't affect us, so what is the problem. only those who want to hide their activities would have any real problem.

Happy Christmas, Merry Saturnalia, Yule tide greetings

 

What is nudity

What is Nudity, what harm is done if someone sees you naked?

Does it detract from you if your naked body is seen by others?

This blog has been seen over a hundred thousand times and hasn't made a difference to the way people view Maja (or me).  There isn't much of her that hasn't been seen, but it makes no difference. plus a lot of people have seen her in the flesh.

This brings me to a question, I was reading somewhere else a woman who had let her boyfriend take nude photos of her. Then they parted and she was worried about him pasting her pictures all over the internet.  

That got me thinking, first is why take them if they weren't intended to be seen, second some are worried about blackmail. well maybe once, but when they've shown them once there is no threat.

Many will happily go for a naked massage, but if someone were to accidentally touch them they'd scream the place down.

our relationship with our bodies is ambivalent at best. So many people are afraid of their own skin. 

How would you feel about a totally clothes free society?

it would be good for the environment, clothing manufacture is terrible fo pollution and carbon. 

it would be good for getting rid flashers, no point in flashing someone who is already nude.
 

attitudes

 It strikes me as odd that we can have flags, lectures, marches and media articles about various sexual proclivities Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, trans-sexual etc. But the merest hint Naturism throws everyone into hysterics.

Discuss, (in public) having sex in all its possible forms and it is quite acceptable. but the simple mention of the naturist body will cause you all sorts of outrage.

What makes the human body such an anathema to these people. After all if you are religious, you are supposed to be made in the image of your God.

 

Is it Spring Yet?

If anyone knows what dat Summer will be on this year, can you let me know. Last year I blinked and missed it.

But for now here is maja with me and my brother at Candy farm a few of years ago.

 

Time and Tide

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Clothes

 

Some of you will remember, I have a copy of this picture hung on my lounge wall.

Looking at it the other night I realised how natural it was to see Maja naked. That is how we all should be.

The Body

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Skin

 I was looking at pictures for this posting and I started to wounder what is it about our skin that embarrasses us. What is it that causes humans to get all wound up about nudity. We've all got skin and can all go nude, there is no difference apart from gender. We are the only animal that is ashamed of its skin. There is more and more skin appearing in films etc. Even the cute, nation's baby Emma Watson is modelling see through underwear, admittedly there is very little of her clothes that are see through, but that is because her clothes are very little and show as much skin as possible.

Most of our problems come from religion, even atheists are controlled by attitudes introduced by religion.

My brother used to give his neighbour a lift to work while his car was being repaired. He called in one morning and the neighbour wasn't quite ready, but they had time so Mick had a coffee with him. while they were talking the neighbour's wife came into the kitchen topless said "Morning Mick" and proceeded to pull her underclothes out of the tumble drier. They weren't naturists, but she was completely natural about being topless and it made no difference between them in the future. A few summers ago I was working in my garage re building my canoe, the garage always gets hot in the summer so I was working naked. after a few hours a friend from the other side of town walked in. I wasn't expecting him and he isn't a naturist, but he wasn't disturbed by it, and we talked for a while then went to the house for coffee. I remained naked and his attitude towards us hasn't changed. 

What I'm saying is don't be afraid to let you friends see you and your partner naked, if they are real friends it wont worry them. 

It's interesting that many of the clothing shops have cameras in their changing rooms were staff can watch customers changing to make sure they don't put stolen clothes under their own. So many people have been seen naked without being aware of it. Some swimming pools have cameras in the changing rooms and of course the airport security is quite revealing. 

I had an interesting happening a few months ago, I went to have new hearing aids fitted, they are quite expensive but can be controlled through an app on my mobile phone. The lady setting them up asked for my mobile to set it up, it was then that I realised she was going to see my wallpaper which is a full frontal of Maja in the shower.  Oops! I could have changed it before going there so as not to embarrass her, but too late when I realised. So I explained what the wallpaper was and asked if that would be OK she smiled and answered that it was alright, so I handed it over and she wasn't in the least concerned. She even commented how attractive Maja was. I was more concerned because she was of Asian descent and Asian people are often more timid about their bodies.

As you have seen I post naked pictures of Maja and myself and some friends, it has made no difference to us or our friends naturist and non naturist. If a neighbour or friend or occasionally a stranger pops in  while we are naked, we don't rush to cover up. What about you, have you had any nude incidents or do you have any photos that could be posted here or on your own website or blog,  let us know, we'll be happy to show or publicise it for you. 

Contact us through Comments and I'll give you my email to post to then I can transfer tem to these pages.

At the Golf Club

 There are a lot of places where you can be nude in the open air and they dont have to be Naturist approved. These photos where taken behind a local golf club in Leicestershire and we only came close to being discovered once when a car full of teenagers drove by on the track below.

Snowdon wanted to go adventuring in the woods, he usually liked having his picture taken.

No fruit in them trees

time to get a tan.

I'm sure that was a squirrel

Angles

The angle you take your pictures from and the pose of the model can have an effect on how the picture is perceived. These pictures are looking towards the models vagina. But while being a little risqué they are not pornographic as many pictures in similar poses are. The soft core porn variety have the model holding her lips open giving a graphic picture of her internals.  

Even pictures looking at the genital area alone dont have to be porn,

Where can nudes go

There are various naturist/sun clubs in the UK, plus a number of beaches. But you dont have to restrict yourself to the authorised areas. First it is not illegal to be naked in public as long as it is not with intent to shock. There is a man in Hastings area who cycles around naked, goes to the beach, cafes and pubs. The local police know him and once had to protect him from a holidaying policeman from out of the area who was intent on arresting him. if you follow in his footsteps that ius your choice. But for those like me who aren't quite ready to walk naked along the main street, I'm suggesting finding places to go nude that dont risk upsetting others.

This was taken on a textile farm campsite, we were there midweek and out of the main holiday season. there was nobody else there so no chance of upsetting anyone. There was a nice stream behind us that we could splash around in aor take the canoe down to a lake.

The banks of the Ashby Canal the canoe was propped up to deflect the wind. there were anglers about but nowhere near us.

We were at the back of a golf club, near Woodhouse Eaves for this one, we had an adventure here which I wrote about previously.

Nude hiking at Grace Dieu Woods shortly after this we heard voices and were able to pull on our shorts and Tee shirts before we met them.