Dont forget to include yourself in your photos, because it is the man who usually takes the pictures, most nudes tend to be of women. Of course that is not the only reason men are left out. The main reason is simply that women are more photogenic and before anyone accuses me of being sexist, many women, both Heterosexual and Lesbian, will agree they find the female form more attractive than the male.
Of course, there is nothing to stop you getting a friend to take photos of both of you.
Be careful of your choice of cameraman though, if you are taking more intimate photos he/she might want to join in or later show them around people you would sooner didn't see them.