How intimate??

How intimate can you go without it being porn, I would say Porn is in the eyes of the beholder. A beautiful couple making gentle love isn't necessarily porn.  if a man and a woman who are unknown to each other and have no feelings for each other, are paid to have sex for the cameras, I would think of that as porn.

A loving couple making love for the camera and for their own enjoyment are not making porn, even if they have an invited camera man/woman to record events. Is it wrong to let someone else see you making love, I dont think so and an experience we had some years ago portray this pretty well.

 We lived in a house of three flats, one on each floor, we had the ground floor and the largest of the flats. We were friendly with the couple above us and often in and out of each others place.

One night Maja and I were making love in front of the fire. I was lying on my back and Maja sat astride me, we were reaching the highlights when the door opened and a voice said "Maja are you there?"

She looked round the door and saw us, for a moment she just watched, then she apologised and fled. Later that night we could hear their bed springs getting some exercise. But we laughed at her reaction and carried on with our lovemaking, I dont think we would have stopped if she had stayed to watch. It was all perfectly innocent and no-one suffered because of it.

So porn isn't what you do, but how you do it. Rather like the pictures on this blog Maja is nude and we can see almost all of her, she doesn't thrust or pout like the models in the top-shelf magazines and I feel her photos are perfectly innocent. The Top-Shelf mags mostly sell sex. Maja shows innocent beauty. The lower of the two pictures is mimicking a Top-Shelf pose and not actually doing it.