Nudity v clothed

 

Is Naturism sexual?

The answer is yes, it can be. But is there anything wrong in that?

Clothing can be sexy and it is often said that the sexy part of clothing is what you don't see. 

Stand a beautiful girl in a mini bikini along side one that is nude, which one do you look at most.

A friend of mine years ago said "see one and you've seen them all." Not strictly true, but you can see where he is going. It's what you don't see that attracts the most interest.

Naturists are often accused of having sex and its true, but textiles do as well. 

We are accused of having sex in the outdoors, but textiles do as well.

Some naturists are accused of having  sex in public, but some textiles do that as well. Dogging is a much publicised example.

Naturism and Textile-ism  are not so different, the same thoughts pass through your mind when you see an attractive member of the opposite sex, wether that person is clothed or not.

How intimate??

How intimate can you go without it being porn, I would say Porn is in the eyes of the beholder. A beautiful couple making gentle love isn't necessarily porn.  if a man and a woman who are unknown to each other and have no feelings for each other, are paid to have sex for the cameras, I would think of that as porn.

A loving couple making love for the camera and for their own enjoyment are not making porn, even if they have an invited camera man/woman to record events. Is it wrong to let someone else see you making love, I dont think so and an experience we had some years ago portray this pretty well.

 We lived in a house of three flats, one on each floor, we had the ground floor and the largest of the flats. We were friendly with the couple above us and often in and out of each others place.

One night Maja and I were making love in front of the fire. I was lying on my back and Maja sat astride me, we were reaching the highlights when the door opened and a voice said "Maja are you there?"

She looked round the door and saw us, for a moment she just watched, then she apologised and fled. Later that night we could hear their bed springs getting some exercise. But we laughed at her reaction and carried on with our lovemaking, I dont think we would have stopped if she had stayed to watch. It was all perfectly innocent and no-one suffered because of it.

So porn isn't what you do, but how you do it. Rather like the pictures on this blog Maja is nude and we can see almost all of her, she doesn't thrust or pout like the models in the top-shelf magazines and I feel her photos are perfectly innocent. The Top-Shelf mags mostly sell sex. Maja shows innocent beauty. The lower of the two pictures is mimicking a Top-Shelf pose and not actually doing it.

all change

 Since I last wrote things have been happening.

My health has not improved, my legs refuse to heal and we are both getting older.

My brother passed away, his doctor had beed treating him for months, for what the doctor said was "Long Covid" Mick ha a particularly bad night and was seen by the locum who took one look at him and said, "that's not long covid I want you in hospital right away.

It turned out to be Liver Cancer and too late to treat, so he passed away the night before Maja and I were planning to see him.

RIP 

Michael we'll miss you.

On the way home from his wake, My chest started to hurt and by 4 am it was so bad I asked Maja to ring for an ambulance. The Paramedics after an ecg said they thought it was a heart attack and took me in. A blood test confirmed it and I was transferred to the Cardiac Care Unit. 

I was wired up to a big monitor and put to bed. CCU was a quiet well run ward with great staff, the best I have been on. Next afternoon and they wheeled me down to theatre where the surgeon gave me an angiogram and inserted a stent tube through my wrist to my heart. It was only a couple of minutes and he said "Ahh there it is!"

He put the stent in and released some balloons to broaden th vein and release the clot. I was in the theatre for about 20 mins and most of that was setting up the equipment and getting me in the right place.

Back on the ward, they monitored me for a couple of days and satisfied, said I could go home.

Maja came to fetch me, but on the way to the car she was paying attention to me and tripped over the kerb in the car park, landing heavily on her him. we managed to get home but a couple of days later she was in so much pain,  had to go into hospital for a few days. That was difficult because I could barely walk and had to take care of myself. When they let her come home theWelfare people came and provided her with various trolleys for getting about. Maja is moving a lot better today and we hope she will continue to improve

World Naked Hiking Day 21 June 2022

 The twenty first  of June is world Naked Hiking day. dont worry if you never heard of it before, neither have I, but I'm all for something new. So here are a few pics to celebrate it.

Classic Posts

 You might guess by the lack of new posts, that the scanner idea didn't work. The quality was terrible. I will keep working on it, but for now I'll post what the TV companies call classics. which really means repeats. If you have any favourites you would like to see published again, tell me in the comments.

Pole Dancing

 Is Pole Dancing pornographic?

It can be, it all depends on the context. To some it is a great form of exercise. To others it is a sexual display. But like social nudity, it is all in how you do it.

If you do it in a bar, wear scanty panties and encourage men to put money in them, you are obviously not doing it to keep fit. Maja is after trimming her figure,